As a child, I spent countless hours in the sun. 

My first job was walking beans — read about it here, if you’re not from the Midwest. I would lie out any chance I got, preferably in a bikini to ensure I was exposing every possible square inch of skin to the sun’s rays. For my chores, I lobbied hard to mow the lawn and tend to the garden rather than to dust and vacuum. 

I spent weeks at my grandparents’ cabin, waterskiing, boating, fishing and walking on the beach. 

Woman Sun Bathing On Beach, Sun Safety - City Mom Collective

Going for Tan

Normally, I didn’t burn. I tanned. I was lucky. My cousin and I would spend full days outside in a sort of friendly competition for the darkest skin and lightest hair.

Sunscreen wasn’t a thing when I was a kid. We *might* have applied a quick layer of SPF 2 oil, if we were going to be at the beach all day. But that was the exception — not the rule. (And let’s be honest: SPF 2 probably wasn’t doing much, anyway.) 

Once, I used sunscreen during a family vacation and starting itching so badly, I had to go to the doctor. Turns out, I’m allergic to propylparaben, a common ingredient in sunscreens. I didn’t use any the next few days and burned so badly that my skin peeled off in sheets. U-g-l-y.

Still, when I was in my 20s, I occasionally visited the tanning booth to dim the white glow of my winter body. 

Tanning Bed, Sun Safety - City Mom Collective

Paying the Price

Years later, I am paying the price for my childhood sun-worshipping days. 

Shortly after my husband and I married 16 years ago, I had a nagging itch on my back. It wasn’t a mole. There was really nothing to see — just a tiny bump about the size of a pinhead. But my husband talked me into going to the dermatologist. 

That tiny itch was a basal cell carcinoma, the most common form of skin cancer. In the United States alone, about 3.6 million cases are diagnosed each year. Because they’re slow growing, most are treatable and cause minimal damage if caught early. 

In my case, a surgeon made a football-shaped incision near my spine, sliced out the bad cells and sewed me back up. Since then, I have seen a dermatologist roughly every year and had several other abnormal cells frozen or cut off various parts of my body. 

And so far, I’m one of the lucky ones. (I remind my kids of this every time I’m slathering the family in sunscreen.)

skin cancer

Big Numbers

Twenty percent of Americans will develop skin cancer, according to the Skin Cancer Foundation. One in five. Chances are, that’s one in your household. 

Want some more stats?

    • Two people die of skin cancer every hour.
    • In the U.S., more than 9,500 people are diagnosed with skin cancer every day. 
    • More than 5.4 million cases of non-melanoma skin cancer were treated in over 3.3 million people in the U.S. in 2012, the most recent year new statistics were available.
    • More people are diagnosed with skin cancer each year in the U.S. than all other cancers combined.

Melanoma can be fatal, but want the good news? The five-year survival rate is a whopping 99 percent for melanoma that is detected early. 

Brown spots, moles and growths on the skin usually are harmless. The ABCDEs and the Ugly Duckling (a mole that is simply different from the rest) may give you early indicators of melanoma. In other words, look for anything unusual, new or changing. Women commonly find melanomas on their legs; men on their trunks. But melanomas can pop up anywhere — even on skin typically unexposed to the sun. 

OK… So we’ve discussed basal cells and melanomas. Let’s touch on the rare and aggressive merkel cell carcinoma and the second-most common type of skin cancer: squamous cell carcinoma. Like all skin cancers, try to catch these early. 

While the majority of squamous cells can be easily and successfully treated if caught early, if allowed to grow, the lesions can become disfiguring or even deadly. 

Merkel cell is a different animal. It’s 40 times more rare and three to five times more deadly than melanoma. With equally aggressive treatment, however, recovery is possible. In fact, a good friend’s mom recently underwent an innovative, new type of treatment for merkel cell and so far, her scans have come back clean. 


Skin Aging

Even if you are one of the fortunate ones who never get skin cancer, there’s another issue at play here: skin aging. 

An estimated 90 percent of skin aging is caused by the sun. Sun damage is cumulative, with only about 23 percent of lifetime exposure happening by the age of 18. 

The American Academy of Dermatology Association lists 11 ways to protect skin against premature aging. Number one? Protect your skin from the sun. Seek shade, wear sun-protective clothing and use sunscreen SPF 30 (or higher) every day on areas of the body not covered by clothing. Other suggestions include using a self-tanner rather than rays to get your bronze and applying a facial moisturizer every day. 

It’s never too late for a better skincare routine. The Dermatology Association suggests that even people who already show signs of premature skin aging can benefit from making lifestyle changes. By protecting your skin from the sun, you give it a chance to repair some of the damage. 

Looking for further info on how to protect your skin (and your kids’) from increased risk of cancer and/or premature aging? The Skin Cancer Foundation has put together a handy-dandy little resource called Your Daily Sun Protection Guide with lots of common-sense tips and recommendations. 

Finally… Stories + Tips from Other Moms

Moms from across our network have wisdom to share about sun safety. Read on…

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